i am so sorry this found it’s way to you.
i don’t have the perfect words to make this easier, because to be honest with you, there aren’t any.
grief will never be something that you fix. grief is something that you learn to live with..
and right now? that probably feels so unbearable.
you might feel like you’ve been left behind in a world that keeps moving forward, all while everyone around you tells you to “stay strong”
there may be days when you cry for hours and there may be days when you don’t cry at all.
grief is messy. grief is complicated. grief is confusing. grief is scary. grief is sad. grief is lonely. grief is hard. and grief is so much more than just grief.
the only right way to walk this path is on your own terms and at you own pace.
and i hope you remember that you you don’t have to have it all figured out..
be gentle with yourself.
you are going through one of the hardest things a heart can hold and even though it may not feel like it right now, you will find your light again.
maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow. but one day, you will.
and when you do, that love you carry will still always be there..
reminding you that they are always a part of you, and you will always be a part of them.